I don't like Tal.Ki because it takes photos from sites like myspace and your name and uses them for your user profile. My site has to be annonomus for all users. When I say that, I mean that you can choose your username and password and what avatar you want, not the widget doing that automatically. I have tried Nabble. I love it, but I have 2 websites. I want to put Nabble on the other site too. The problem is that the embeded fourm widget can only have 1 background color, but my 2 sites have different background colors. I want to have a fourm widget that has its own login system and the background color of the widget changes to the background color of the site it is on. Any Ideas?